Richard-Gabriel Rummonds Poetry Contest Winner

Published by Ex Ophidia Press

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ISBN 10: 8218667865
Publishing Date: June 20th, 2025
Pages: 100

Recovery Commands is a book of poems about the collision of military and civilian life found inside one loving, long-term, and contradictory marriage. Two people, each informed by and embedded within cultures that would seem to be at odds with one another, somehow hold fast to each other through decades of war and its lasting legacies. This book follows the impacts of violent conflict and deployment on a family through one pacifist, nonbinary poet’s perspective, but it speaks to a universal sense of inner conflict that so many humans experience while trying to love each other in a violent, unjust world. These poems manage to map out the paths human compassion takes to survive political upheaval and confounding military traditions, and they do so by leaning on humor, wit, and deep care for humanity. Recovery Commands is an instruction manual for how to love despite the practical reasons not to.


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In Recovery Commands, Murray dissects a long military marriage, asking what separates kindness from brutality and passivism from warmongering. Along the way, they find tenderness despite cruelty and cling to hope "like a weapon [they] have been trained to love."
—Kate Gaskin, author of Forever War

Against war, erasure, and the easy myths of resilience, Abby E. Murray offers Recovery Commands, their latest collection, with poems circling defiance and tenderness, filled with "hope / like a weapon I have been trained to love." Fierce, unflinching, unforgettable. This book is luminous.
—Pamela Hart, author Mothers Over Nangarhar

PERUGIA PRESS Poetry PRIZE WINNER

Published by Perugia Press

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ISBN 10: 0997807636
Publishing Date: September 15, 2019
Pages: 99

Abby E. Murray’s debut Hail and Farewell is a bold examination of the intimate relationship between a soldier and a pacifist, bound together by choice. The collection reveals a wife’s perspective during her husband’s deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan, including the whiplash of infertility experienced between tours. Inseparable by heart, their marriage is also built on disagreement. Military spouses are often expected to express absolute patriotism, and to conform to gender roles shaped by sexist, archaic ideals. But these poems don’t aim to accuse; rather, they call for compassion and community in the face of isolation. Capable of inserting levity into the most dire of circumstances, the poet never lets the reader forget what is at stake. Murray tears the idealized from the real, illuminating the brutality of battle and loss—traumas we tend to avoid in both military and civilian life. Hail and Farewell is an expertly woven treatise on love, war, and politics.


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At a time when lines of ideological division run particularly deep, it gives me hope to see a poet exploring the nuances of patriotism and pacifism through the voice of a speaker who embraces the duality of her identity as both a wife and also a person defined by much more than her gender or marital status. Though full of men, Hail and Farewell is a book made of everything that a woman is expected to be—beautiful, fecund, and endlessly patient—cast against the surreal landscapes of a homecoming ceremony for returning soldiers or the military family housing that turns strangers into reluctant intimates. Most of all, I’m heartened to see that what I’ve always told my students is true: If there is a story that needs to be told, there is someone who can tell it. And damn, but Abby Murray tells this one.

—Keetje Kuipers

Hail and Farewell is a triumph of womanhood and a reminder that we are all touched by war. The small questions the poems ask about what it means to love, to support, and to find strength in the spaces of everyday are magnified against a backdrop of conflict and by the desire to make something from uncertainty. There is a sense that the world could be upended at any moment, and these poems open those moments and ask us to step closer.
—Dorianne Laux

How to Be Married after Iraq
Finishing Line Press, 2018

Quick Draw:
Poems from a Soldier’s Wife
Finishing Line Press, 2012

Me and Coyote
Lost Horse Press, 2010

Recent Poems:

I Can’t Find My Gender — One Art, 2025
Advice from a Goldfinch — Birdbrains: A Lyrical Guide to Washington State Birds, forthcoming
Teaching Poetry in a Fourth Grade Classroom I Don’t Know Anything — Porcupine Literary
Saying Grace — Citron Review, 2025
How Not to Be a Buzzkill at Holiday Gatherings A Fact about Trees Grief in December — seedfall, 2025
Two-Hour Delay — Rattle: Poets Respond, 2025
Today, I Am Not Kind Because I Love Love — One Art, 2025
Hello, I Am Not a Soldier — Rattle: Poets Respond, 2024
Hallowed — Poets Reading the News, 2024
It’s Going to Be Okay — One Art, 2024
The Traditional 20th Anniversary Gift Is China — Gramercy Review, 2024
Because Nothing Says Sorry About Your Hopelessness Like Chicken Enchiladas — Editor’s Choice Award, Sheila-Na-Gig, 2024
Poem in Which the Limits of a Gift Are Identified Tahoma Doesn’t Love Us +0.01 — Voices of Tacoma, 2024
She Wants to Live In Which I Show Myself Some Mercy — One Art, 2024
The New Year Makes a Request — Rattle: Poets Respond, 2024
Ode to My Inner Ear — Crab Creek Review, 2023
What It’s Like to Consider Whose Country It Was First Ode to an Invasive Species On the First Day of School — One Art, 2023
Every Poem I Didn’t Write — Desert Rat Poetry Prize Winner, 2023
Supermoon — Rattle: Poets Respond, 2023
Decolonize the Stars — New York Quarterly, 2023
You’re from Nowhere — Common Ground Review Poetry Contest Winner, 2023
Elegy for a Cat — Gyroscope Review, 2023
After a Massacre — Letter Review, 2023
Self-Portrait as Coriander Seed — Rattle: Poets Respond, 2023
Synonyms for Silence — Pleiades, 2023
All Souls — River Heron Review, 2023
Poem for My Inner Warrior — San Diego Poetry Annual, 2023
The End of Everything — North American Review, 2023
On Our 18th Wedding Anniversary, I Write an Ode to Lichen — upstreet, 2023
Heirloom — MER, 2023
Dog — the tiny journal, 2023
When My Husband Asks What He Can Do to Convince Me He Loves Me, I Say When They Say All Is Lost — New Ohio Review, 2022
Funny How — Rattle: Poets Respond, 2022
A Note from Your Friendly Poetry Instructor — Rattle, 2022
The War in Spring — Winner, 2022 Barbara Mandigo Kelly Peace Poetry Contest, Nuclear Age Peace Foundation
Identity Lessons — Half Mystic Press, 2022
How Not to Kill — Harbor Review, 2022
Plans for the Afterlife — Baltimore Review, 2022
On Your Birthday — One Art’s Most-Read Poem of August 2022
Motherhood for Beginners — Rattle: Poets Respond, 2021
Tahoma Doesn’t Love Us — PBS, 2021
I Read About You in the Paper — The Line, 2021
What the Dead Man Taught Me — Rattle: Poets Respond, 2020
When I Am Asked to Be More Like the Good Women of Sparta in the Movie 300 — Writers Resist, 2020
We Can Fry Anything — New Ohio Review, 2020
Buying Rocks for My Students — Adroit Journal, 2020 (featured on Palette Poetry: Poetry We Admire)
Advent on South Hill — Rattle: Poets Respond, 2019
Words on White Feminism Disguised as a Backless Dress — Prairie Schooner, 2019
Recovery Commands — Poets Reading the News, 2019
Three Poems from Hail and Farewell + Two New Poems — Wrath-Bearing Tree, 2019
How to Survive Patriotism in 2019 — Poets Reading the News, 2019
How Can I Tell You This — Comstock Review, 2019
Free Shipping — Rattle: Poets Respond, 2019
Poem As an Act of Terrorism — Steve Kowit Prize, 2nd Place, San Diego Poetry Annual, 2019
The Story of My Hair — American Journal of Poetry, 2019
Poem for Pregnant Women Who Hold Their Stomachs in Photos — Crosswinds, 2019
At the Wives’ Coffee — New Ohio Review, 2018
This Is Only a Test — Rattle: Poets Respond, 2018
Army Ball How to Die in Peacetime 13 Ways to Approach a Three-Headed Dog — Wrath-Bearing Tree, 2018
How We Love — Tahoma Literary Review, 2018
Why Women Write Poems for Their Sons How I Continue to Fail at Parenting — Radar, 2018
Breakfast with Santa — Writers Resist, 2018
When I Tell You I Love You — Prairie Schooner, 2017
Asking for a Friend — RHINO Founders Prize, 1st Place, 2017
What I Didn’t Say at the Table — Rattle: Poets Respond, 2017